Z's 35th Birthday

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May 14 – 17, 2026

We deeply believe in the idea of chosen family. We often joke that we don't love our parents because they had sex 35 years ago but because of the life and the love they gave us. We love each other more than anything else in the world and we're not related… we hope (btw, we're taking it to the grave if we find out we are). All kidding aside, that's our life philosophy.

Each of you have become our chosen family. We do not say this lightly. It means that we love you with all of our heart. If you needed anything, we'd be there. If your kids needed something, we would be there for them.

Life is incredible and we feel extremely fortunate. But it can also test the reserve of even the strongest of us. What makes it easier is having family around to support you, in both the highs and the lows. While I hope they are few and far between, there will be tough moments ahead for each of us. Know that we are in each of your corners and we'll always fight with all of our might for you and your loved ones.

As Z turns 35 and we think about expanding our family, we wanted to bring together our chosen family. We wanted to let each of you know just how much we love you and to thank you for supporting us. Hopefully this is the beginning of many more celebrations together.

With all our love,
Zeo ❤️

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The Three Principles

We embrace the 🧀 — and so should you

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Single Threaded

Since we're only together for a short period of time, we will be single threaded for the weekend. Only one event at a time — no offshoots or different activities. With one exception — from 5-6pm on Friday and Saturday we'll have nap time (sponsored by Ro 😉).

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Don't Be Shy

As you know, we don't drink. But when we celebrated Cleo's 30th birthday, one of her friends had ordered a bottle of champagne while in the pool within 15 minutes of arriving at the hotel. She made herself right at home and didn't hold back. We love that. We expect the same from you — please lean in. Treat yo self. Embrace the indulgence. If you want gluten free chocolate chip cookies at midnight, text the chef. If you want a bowl of fruit poolside, just ask. You want nutella crepes for breakfast, let me know. You want lobster and steak for dinner — so do I!

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Pics Yes, Socials No

We love memories. I think 20% of the trip lives in front of the camera. Take as many pictures and videos as you want. We only ask that you don't post anything on social media. Thank you.

The Roster

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The Itinerary

Four days of chosen family magic

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The Details

👕 Packing

  • Weather ~70-85°F — warm & breezy
  • You know Z will be in a t-shirt the whole time
  • Wear what makes you happy and comfortable!
  • No formal dinners
  • Lots of beach time — bathing suits, sandals, hats 🏖️
  • Group sport activities — sneakers, sports bras, shorts 🏐
  • Sparks or Rise (IYKYK) ✨

🍽️ Dietary Restrictions

  • Gluten Free: Maddie, Aron, and Saman (sometimes)
  • Protein: Mark, Z, Lauren, Ben
  • Pesca Pescatarian: Saman
  • Schnitzel: Julian
  • Soup: Johnny & Iz
  • Donuts: Kyle 🍩

🎁 Gifts

Time is our most valuable asset. You spending 3 days with us IS the gift. The only thing that can make it better is to fully lean into the "Don't be shy" principle.